Many college men have one goal when it comes to dating women. Many men would skip the date if they could, and move directly from hello to sex.
For her safety, a woman needs to be clear about her expectations when dating.
Build friendships on shared values, mutual respect and trust.
When the time and guy are right, these traits will provide a strong foundation for a secure relationship and a happy marriage.
Before now, she got advice about boys—mostly warnings.
She was homeschooled, and her interactions with boys were limited in comparison to girls who attend high school.
I hope you will save sexual intimacy for your marriage.
It’s honorable, and God and I still believe it’s the best choice to make. But to do that, you must know your boundaries and communicate them firmly.
The prevailing assumption is that college co-eds will consent to sex. Casual sex between friends and acquaintances, called “hook-ups,” are common.Of course, that’s second to keeping alive your relationships with God, your family and friends.For now, put dating and finding a mate in the column of secondary pursuits.The feminist movement has made it acceptable for a woman to take the initiative in asking a man for a date, and even to ask a man to marry her. Movies about women who try to hook a disinterested man don’t sell well.The pursuit of a woman by a man, and the thrill that accompanies it for both sexes, is a core theme in human history. But when it comes to asking for a date, planning the date, picking you up for the date, and paying the bill—let him do that.Now that she’s entered adulthood, drives a car, and goes more places without a parent tagging along, the opportunities for dating are multiplying.